I was a R.A. at a college in New York. I met this guy out at a bar. He did not attend the same college but all of his friends did and I was their R.A. Anyway, I started hooking up with him on a consistent basis but it never went as far as making out. It was winter time and I did not feel the need to groom down there. One day, I was taking a shower and he had come over to surprise me. Apparently he had asked my roommate where I was and she said "in the shower." He came in and opened the curtain. I was stunned. He looked down at my crotch and began laughing and said he was sorry. Regardless of that "hairy" situation, we hooked up that night, but for the last time. From that point on, his friends would always laugh and whisper when I walked by.